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hahha...my CRAZY friends been checking my blog out for the 1st time and of course they are impressed and love it...hehehe...okay, thats just me thinking i'm hard but ya. its funny the comments i'm getting...
so ystrday my brillinat,witty friend anna sent me a belated birthday wish...how beautiful hey (a wink to ya anna!) yeah,she paid me to say that hey...zvanzi if i dnt she'll beat me to a pulp next time she sees me...hheehehh.ah well,bring it baby!!
okay so i got no nyayas so let me not bore u all with crap.....
oh oh, getting the preps 4 the dinner 2mrw...going all out kinda hey, decorating the room,picking up the cake 2mrw,made little gift bags 4 my guest to say thanx 4 coming...etc...i'm excited. will so post sum pics up next week

anyway, am watching idol now so let me even bust out
over and out...roger stand by!

soo yesterday was the big day...it was actually preetty groovy. started of slow, chilled. i went to maylands and met up with zakkie lloyd...hadnt seen him in ages...lives in a really nice apartment hey...anyway then went on to shop for sumthing warm to wear on friday and i got just the thing,a shawl and a little jacket thing so now i'll have to decide which to wear...ah well. variety is better than nothing. i then headed to Keeturah day spa for my pampering...OMG it was reaaly great hey...the facial was ayt,coz i've had afew before but the massage...oohhhh...it was sheer bliss i tell ya...hectic stuff.definately will go back there when i can afford it!! anyway so this lasted like 2hrs almost so when i walked out i was totally relaxed. i then went home and that was pretty much the day. got a few calls from friends and family and some emails,ecards and fives(hi5) so that was nice and sweet of peeps...
oh wat cracked me up was a sms from my mum before she called me. she says to me 'happy birthday dear,now u have the key and remember kuti haivhuri pese pese' (i'm like huh...okay...wats she tryna say...wierd-type-thing) such a mumsy thing to say huh...then she's like 'stay cool, love u'...yeah thats my Q tryna be all hip and with it...funny!! but it was sweet...

but ya, all in all it was a great day...i'm hoping friday is even better so ya..will keep ya posted
mwah

by the by

by the way hey..i still dnt have my scarf back from rodney...can u believe it!! like its been what...3-4 weeks already!!! so not impressed now...i went to his place today but he wasnt there,had gone to the gym so that was that...still havent got my poor scarf back and that sux!! will keep at it...gotta get it back man...

so...dee day 2mrw!!

SO...today's my last day as a youngster, like seriously now and officially! like its funny how huge turning 21 is...i ddnt think it would be this big a deal but slowly u jus keep thinking kuti this is bigger than i could've thot. like now when its upon you it sorta feels like the the last nail in the coffin of your youth.like from now on its jus about being an adult and nothing else...freaky stuff!
in my head ryt now its like after this chasara is getting married,having kida nad getting old...crazy stuff! ah well such is life, gotta take it as it comes,cant turn back the clock and cant slow it down,jus gotta make do!

so i'm not sho wat i'll be doing 2mrw...i wanna jus be chilled.i have my appointment at Keturah day spa for 1:30 in the aftrnoon and i'm going in for a deluxe facial and massage....ooohhhh how exciting...i aint neva had a massage before so am sooo looking forward to this like you have no idea.its gonna be interesting,will say more about that 2mrw(hopefully). wat else...yeah, will go shopping for last minut items for the dinner friday. still have to get an alice band,shoe items,a jacket thing, a bag...yeah...a few things 4 sho!! after that i'll cum home and jus chill and watch tv.
the birthday messages have already started cuming in from people and thats nice...i jus hope and pray i have a GREAT day 2mrw..that would be cool.

anyway, 2mrw will be another milestone in this long,unpredictable journey of my life and i hope its all its cracked up to be and more...so here's to the next 21 years of my life...cheers

love hils

WOman

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A set of screwdrivers,a cordless drill, anda black lace bra..


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
One friend whoAlways makes her Laugh... And oneWho lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A good piece of furniturenot previously owned byAnyone else in her family...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE Eight matching plates,Wine glasses with stems,And a recipe for a meal that willMake her guests feel honored.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A feeling of control over Her destiny...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to fall in loveWithout losing herself...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
HOW TO QUIT A JOB
BREAK UP WITH A LOVER
AND CONFRONT A FRIEND WITHOUT RUINING THE FRIENDSHIP...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
When to try harder... andWHEN TO WALK AWAY..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That she can't changeThe length of her calves,The width of her hips, orThe nature of her parents...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That her childhoodMay not have beenPerfect..but;Its over...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she would and Wouldn't Do for love or more...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

How to live alone.... even if She doesn't like it...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Whom she can trust, Whom she can't, And why she shouldn't Take it personally...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Where to go... Be it to her best friend's kitchen table..Or a charming inn in the woods...When her soul needs soothing...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplishIn a day... A month..And a year...

Women...women

There are women who will make your life miserable if you allow themto.One truth in life is that even if drawn together by the same faith,community or interests, not every woman can be your true friend.There are those who will look at you from head to toe and find afault to pick on.Then there are those who want to be you (not realizing that you haveyour own insecurities).There are those who want to know where you shop just so they can rateyour class and how far up the ladder they are.Then of course, there are those who secretly want your boyfriend orhusband. A true friend would never compete with you.In fact, when life beats you up so hard that you can't dream, shedreams for you.When you can't afford a trip out of town, she pays for your ticket.If you introduce her to a male friend, she will ask you a hundredtimes if you like the guy before she shows any interest.She would never date your ex because when he became a jerk to you, hemight as well have become a jerk to her as well, never mind who was atfault.I have found that it is necessary to find female friends (and becomeone as well) with whom you connect deeply.Women who are confident in who they are without being arrogant.Women who know that there is more to life than who is dating who andwho bought what from where.Today, tell all your female friends that your world would be lesswithout them.Friendship is a promise spoken by heart. It is not given by a pledge,neither is it written on a paper. It is a promise renewed everytime friends keep in touch.

planning the big 21!!

so...exciting news. it like abt 23 days till my b/day and i must say i/m getting quite excited hey...like planning it all and anticipating going on a shopping trip to get a pair of KILLA heels for the night!! so me and sandra did the invites ysterday,well she did it...and they look good. we just got sum clip art of microsoft word and printed the stuff out here at home. ita gonna be asmall item really. dinner at african steakhouse 4 abt 10-12 people and then will probably go out after. but i think its gonna be a ripper...anyway,will let ya know wasup

went to see Rodney 2day

yeah so i finally went to visit rodney at murdoch today...yep like 10yrs later!!but yeah it was really cool. he was so pleased to see me and i him so it was great. he's huge now hey, like built like an ox its not even funny!!he's got so much muscle ka..mmm shocking. like when he hugged me i was like ooookaaayy coz its just muscle man...eish i was shocked man, i wont lie!! anyway we were jus catching up and stuff abt gundi and saints and zim...it was really cool. i was there 4 abt an hour and it was great. dnt know why i hadnt looked 4 him earlier tho, coz it always great to see sumone u know from zim and catch up and stuff. he also took my scarf...my lovely pink one!! yeah he was going to sum pink party and took a fancy to it and that was it really. so he promised to return it to me nxt week sumtym,will bring it to my house hopefully. so anyway, that was today...it was cool.