Women...women

There are women who will make your life miserable if you allow themto.One truth in life is that even if drawn together by the same faith,community or interests, not every woman can be your true friend.There are those who will look at you from head to toe and find afault to pick on.Then there are those who want to be you (not realizing that you haveyour own insecurities).There are those who want to know where you shop just so they can rateyour class and how far up the ladder they are.Then of course, there are those who secretly want your boyfriend orhusband. A true friend would never compete with you.In fact, when life beats you up so hard that you can't dream, shedreams for you.When you can't afford a trip out of town, she pays for your ticket.If you introduce her to a male friend, she will ask you a hundredtimes if you like the guy before she shows any interest.She would never date your ex because when he became a jerk to you, hemight as well have become a jerk to her as well, never mind who was atfault.I have found that it is necessary to find female friends (and becomeone as well) with whom you connect deeply.Women who are confident in who they are without being arrogant.Women who know that there is more to life than who is dating who andwho bought what from where.Today, tell all your female friends that your world would be lesswithout them.Friendship is a promise spoken by heart. It is not given by a pledge,neither is it written on a paper. It is a promise renewed everytime friends keep in touch.